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Boyfriend watches so much Pornhub I’m worried he’s messaging women on there

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend watches porn every day.

I found out by accident. I went on his laptop to book tickets for a concert and found he has been on the website Pornhub.

My boyfriend routinely watches Pornhub before he comes to see me
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My boyfriend routinely watches Pornhub before he comes to see me[/caption]

We have been together for the past two years but live separately. I am 32 and he is 34.

He has been looking at porn every day before he comes out to meet me.

I am worried in case he is responding to any messages on the site or even meeting up with other women.

I have set up a fake profile on the site to see if he messages me.

If I find he has been messaging other women, we are finished.

DEIDRE SAYS: Do not start playing the snoop and setting traps for him. It solves nothing.

Tell him what you have found and that the relationship is over unless he stops.

The website is clearly tempting him to do more than just look.

Don’t let him sidetrack you by complaining about invading his privacy.

What he is doing is a form of cheating.

My e-leaflet on Online Porn Worries can help.

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